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Men, ok. One: why, just why. Two: I don't understand them at all.
Ok situation 1: I think this dude likes me, actually I'm damn sure of it. Then he asks someone else out.
- ok lets analyse this. And this has happened multiple times....seriously...
1. why did you make me feel like you like me.
2. WHY.
3. WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU.
Ok, why make your feelings clear, and then change your mind.
I have spent MANY nights pondering this, as I am single now, and I would like to at least have been given a chance! I have no answer for this other than he found someone better, within a week or two. I don't believe this, as I am pretty awesome.
Immaturity - ok, we are all immature, but I don't get why some men just act like children
Situation 2: boy ignores me for effect, boy acts in a foolish way just to piss me off, boy insults me to try and get me to like him...
Ok what the fuck did I do wrong - nothing I can assure you - so why! Men always leave me going WHY!! Why do you do that, it's stupid, stop acting like a child and man up. MAN UP. Also, why would this make me attracted to you, there is a difference between banter and insulting. Mainly it is sexism and thinking I am an idiot. Please, I know I have breasts, but they do not suck away my intelligence. Nor does their mere existence mean I want to suck you. Thanks. Stop this douchebaggery because you might find me a little bit attractive, also, take what you give. If you can't take being insulted back, stop making fun of me.
Emotional Cripples - this may not just be men, but I find it a common trait in the less neurotic ones
Situation 3: Depressed, boy goes "why can't you just forget about it and be happy sometimes?"...
...this happened. I swore a lot. Why!!! The emotional capacity of a rock. A NON-POROUS ROCK.
Seriously. Actually this has happened with all 3 of my now ex boyfriends.
I love boys, but WHAT. What is that all about.
I've had boys call me fat, stupid, act like douchebags in front of their friends, abandon me for their friends, work, money, other 16 year old girls, sex, ugly girls, I have had boys treat me like I am insane, I have been called crazy, I have been called scary because I am intelligent, I have been called crazy because I am quite open to talking about things, I have been called a whorebag because I am willing to talk about sex and stuff in public, I have been treated like a leper by boys who like me because they think it will make me like them..
no...
Forget films where the blokes understand.
LIFE IS NOT LIKE THAT.
It should be.
It DAMN WELL should be.
So I have decided that it will be and have played out this imaginary situation.
Me: Oh I am MOST LONELY on my own and I miss people, I shall go out and boogie
-boogies-
Man: hello person, you are most sexy and nice and I am a horrible bloke really
Me: oh your a douche bag and have interrupted by boogieing and I am now most upset in my house somehow due to huge inconsistencies and gaps in the plot
Love of life: No fear, I am no longer hiding from you and busy, I have come to spend time with you and cheer you up.
Me: oh, you are most kind and this is good, as I would quite like to have you as I have liked you for a million years, and also I wouldn't pass up the opportunity to have lots of sex with you.
Love of life: oh that's good because I have also liked you for a million years too, and also I would like to have lots of sex with you, whilst being a nice, funny, witty gentleman.
Me: WIN.
-boogieing ensues-
-followed by possibilities of romping happily ever after-
The End.
Men. Confusing.
Stick to films man.
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Maybe if you were nicer to people and actually started to talk to them instead of letting them do all the hard work you wouldn't be so self obsessed and needy. Don't believe a word a male says even if they do proclaim to be a friend they all have a hidden agenda. They want to be liked/loved and all are invariably hard done byand desperate for attemtion and because theit other halves, if they have them, are strong women who probably don't give them the attention they think they deserve, or bolster their ego enough ...my wife/girlfriend/mother doesn't understand me....I need my space...you're crowding me...all means they just want the freesom to go where they want with whom they want when they want to without considering their partner, who they still want to cook their meals and wash their pants. They give the outward impression of being new men but are real chauvanists at heart. She's such a bitch. she's so horrible to me. All designed to get their own way and get others telling them how wonderful they are. Ah poot you, why do you put up with it. They are also invariably manic depressives so you only, as 'friends' get to see their up side while poor old wifey/mother gets all the moody crap!
ReplyDeleteI am starting to sound like your mother now, who I am sure is a very nice lady.
Finally stop spending so much time on here and get out and talk to people it really is the bedt medicine!
Hello! I'm not going to defend what I have written. But I do feel the need to say that you cannot make clear judgements about how nice I am to people on this statement. I am just writing to give my opinion. I find yours really interesting and you are really on the money when it comes to saying that men also want to be loved, I think sometimes it is easy to label the female as needy and wanting love, and the man as a function of fulfilling but not wanting the same thing.
ReplyDeletePersonally, I do not feel I am self obsessed, or needy, I am coping without having a boyfriend, I am just merely confused by men!
Thank you for reading and taking the time to comment. It's nice to see a different, if unexpected, view on what I have written.
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